How to Raise an Obedient French Bulldog

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The French Bulldog is an animal with a unique disposition and it has a face that only a devoted veterinarian or mother can truly love at first glance.

One particular dog I remember was a brined brindle named Barnaby who belonged to my local baker. Instead of just walking, Barnaby strutted like a prize fighter with confidence that was misplaced even though he was only 11 inches high.

Challenge of Raising a Frenchie

The challenges posed by the Frenchies in the way of raising a well-behaved dog are not due to the dog’s lack of intelligence but rather their extreme cleverness combined with the equally extreme stubbornness of a Yorkshire Mule.

To create a well-behaved dog, you must approach your guide or trainer with the awareness that the Frenchies will negotiate rather than follow order, so if the trainor and the dog were to have a battle of wills, the dog will eventually win on an ongoing basis simply by sitting down and refusing to move from his seat until the weather changes.

Understanding the Frenchie Mindset

To the uninitiated, a French Bulldog’s refusal to “sit” looks like defiance. In reality, they are often weighing the pros and cons of the request. They are highly sensitive to tone and atmosphere. If you are cross, they will sulk; if you are fun, they will engage.

The “What’s In It For Me?” Principle

Unlike a Border Collie who lives to please, a Frenchie lives to be pleased. Every command you give must be backed by a currency they value.

• High-Value Rewards: Small bits of boiled chicken or freeze-dried liver are often the only way to break through their “selective hearing.”
• Short Bursts of Focus: Their attention span is roughly the length of a dandelion seed in a breeze. Keep training sessions to five minutes, three times a day.
• The Power of Praise: They are suckers for a high-pitched “Good lad!” and a vigorous ear scratch.

Mastering the Basics: Sit, Stay, and Selective Hearing

The first time I tried to teach Barnaby to “stay,” he looked at me with those wide, soulful eyes, let out a long, dramatic sigh, and promptly fell asleep on my boot. It was a classic Frenchie maneuver. The key to overcoming this is consistency that borders on the obsessive.

The “3-Try Rule” for Success

In our simplified training approach, we use the 3-Try Rule. If your pup gets it right three times, make the task a tiny bit harder (add a distraction). If they miss it three times, make it easier (move closer or use a better treat).

• Naming the Action: Never say the word “Sit” until the dog’s bottom is already heading for the floor. You want them to associate the word with the successful action, not with your frustration.
• Hand Signals: Frenchies are very visual. A flat palm for “Stay” or a finger point for “Down” often communicates more clearly than a spoken word.
• The “Quiet” Command: Because they are prone to “talking” (that unique Frenchie gargle-howl), rewarding the silence between the noises is vital for a peaceful home.

Socialization and the “Positive First Impression”

Because of their sturdy build and bold nature, Frenchies can sometimes be a bit “forward” with other dogs. It is essential to start their socialization early—ideally before the 16-week mark—to ensure they grow into polite citizens of the park.

Navigating the Great Outdoors

The SOL – Puppy Care Guide reminds us that socialization isn’t just about meeting other dogs; it’s about positive exposure to the world.

• New Surfaces: Let them walk on gravel, grass, shiny tiles, and wet pavement.
• Strange Noises: Reward them for staying calm when the vacuum cleaner roars or a heavy lorry passes by.
• Polite Greetings: Don’t let them bowl over every dog they see. Practice “Watch Me” to keep their focus on you when another dog passes.

A Note on Health: Always remember that Frenchies are “brachycephalic” (flat-faced). They overheat rapidly. Never train in the midday sun, and if you hear heavy, raspy panting, stop immediately and find some shade.

House Training: The Frenchie’s Greatest Hurdle

If there is one area where the Frenchie’s stubbornness shines, it is house training. They loathe the rain and will often decide that the rug is a much more sensible option than the wet grass.

The “Potty Math” Strategy

To avoid accidents, follow the simple math: Age in Months + 1. A three-month-old pup can realistically only hold it for four hours.

• The Crate as a Sanctuary: Use a crate or a small “Success Zone” when you can’t watch them. They naturally avoid soiling their sleeping area.
• The “Boring” Potty Trip: When you take them out, don’t play. Stand still, give the command (like “Hurry up”), and only offer praise and a treat after the job is done.
• Consistency is King: Take them out after every nap, every meal, and every vigorous play session.

Essential Frenchie Training Tools

Tool	Purpose	Estimated Cost	Substitution
Harness	Protects their delicate airway	$20 – $40	Never use a choke chain on a Frenchie
Long Training Lead	Practices “Recall” safely	$15 – $25	A long piece of sturdy nylon rope
Treat Pouch	Keeps rewards ready at all times	$10 – $15	A dedicated jacket pocket
Clicker	Marks the exact moment of success	$5 – $8	A sharp, consistent “Yes!”

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Why does my Frenchie ignore me when I call him?
It’s likely not spite, but a lack of motivation. If “Come” usually means the end of fun (like going inside), they won’t want to do it. Make sure coming to you often results in a treat or a game, not just a leash.

Are French Bulldogs hard to house train?
They can be slower than other breeds due to their stubborn nature and dislike of bad weather. However, with a strict schedule and high-value rewards for outdoor successes, they will eventually get the hang of it.

Can a Frenchie be an off-leash dog?
While some can, their high prey drive and “selective hearing” make it risky. It is generally safer to use a long training lead in open areas until their “Recall” (coming when called) is 100% reliable.